Okay so you don’t have a child that has a food allergy, but the school sent home a note saying you can’t pack peanuts in your kids lunch — what? If that’s an issue for you, you’ll want to read this article on what other dumb things you’re probably saying.

Being pregnant is an amazing experience, but let’s face it: sometimes people just speak before they think. If you have a pregnant person in your life, here are things women are tired of hearing. Now, do your best not to ask these — ok?